Ww & I celebrated our 5th mth anniversary early..on monday. nothing to fancy this month, just went to airport to aim our fav salmon fish at the food court. but we reached a lil late (8.10pm) and all was closed :( we wandered arnd and found Popyes..quite nice leh...yumsss. then wandered arnd to find our fav Pacific coffee cafe at the airport corner to drink coffee & talk. great, how somewat boring way to celebrate annivesaries? actually we kinda like it, eating stuff we like (and not spending much), having a gd atmosphere to chitchat, and not too far from home. and this mth i said "happy anniversary" first. ahaahaha.
fast forward to our actual annivesary day....went to hang out at Shihua's place. see her wedding & honeymoon photos..and had all the nice cool gifty stuff from her. luv-ed her photo gift..it's a photo book actually, and gift frm NZ, and oh dun try to guess wat's that's black furry thing la. makes me wanna go for holiday...itch itch itch.and politics? in the office and out of the office...these things do get complicated...and somehow it feels a lil maddening that ppl aren't direct enough. dun like, say lah...rather than harbour it and feel mo and mo unhappy abt it and towards the person. and then spread gossip about the person. think it's so unjustified. ok...not everyone does la...Y says i too naive le. hmm...yeah mayb or i'm also not sensitive enough to see the hints. but still get the hint is also 2nd guessing...what if one 2nd guess wrongly leh? ok la...not everyone know how to be direct, or at least if not direct can learn to forget it. and it's not as bad as i put it to be anyway...but well..gettin to know a bit better abt how some things work
having expectations for the sake of having expectations. that's wat ww says...abt my mil. ok....so buy milk. i've been coming back home late everyday i'm too tired to shop even a bit, much less buy breakfast. dun have to feel u're responsible for my bfast, and not be happy i din settle my own bfast. aie...a bit complicated. anyway other than me & ww, no one else drinks the milk much. anyway ww think's they're finding something tosi pick. having expectations for the sake of having them. stuff like washing clothes, or ironing or folding them. tho...on average i come home at 11plus...everything's done. hmm...ok half blurting for the sake of blurting. so dun think living with in-laws is all that easy for me either. aiya...it's still quite interesting and good la. just i've expected there'll be bound to have differences. the way of doing things are always different.
i can't stand it that a piece of clothing should take 15 mins to iron, my standard is that as long as flat and straight good le, a lil bit of crumple still acceptable (coz i used to take 1 1/2 hrs to iron a mountain of clothes...no time to scrutinize everything and make sure everything's perfect). no time no time...so cannot spend too long perfecting housework. tho my fav housework is washing dishes. next time i'll get the imermaid frm Osim so i dun have to mop the floors..heh..
so having our own place is still gd somehow la...then i'll decide how messy my house gets..hiak hiak... (gosh and i'm thinking of an entirely white study room!...dun worry white isn't as difficult to maintain as everyone thinks). it's also why i'll never cook unless i'm bac at my mum's place...coz really not my kithen la...if it's mine i'm not afraid to get it dirty (and clean it up later). so i'm also looking forward to our new house...because there'll be so much storage space! (or at least we'll be planning for quite abit of storage).
i'm too sleepy to carry on writing le....yanws...another day
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